Hello (yes, i am polite and say hello - you're not my dog and i'm not yours...),
I remind you that i played there's 7 years ago and yes, i was level 65, made all instances and at the beginning, i was supported by other levels 65 with a better gear.
When i was well geared, i supported at my turn people who weren't well geared. I geared myself better, instance after instance and there were rare fails. Then, i know well (even if i forgot a lot of things about this game) what it is to wait a long time before forming a group, and fails weren't always and/or only because of bad geared characters; it was sometimes due to drunk, or tired, or high persons too. If there's a good cohesion and understanding of roles in the group, fails are very rare.
But no need to post more answers to this post. I see that it is just a problem of generations, new ones becoming more and more selfish, as well in game than in life... hopefully, all isn't lost, because there's exceptions and i will find them with time on the server. So, i will level up to 65 and find good players, who will help others to level up in the good mood.
Have fun, all!
Kind regards,
Fred.