Completely normal to activate your statue if you are too incompetent to do it yourself.
If your group not able to activate the statue, it is a invite for your opponent to do so...
it is your own fault, fault of your group.....
You have 3 Minutes time before start battle, to activate your statue.
If you don't do it, it's your mistake.
Crying here just shows that you have no idea about the gameplay in Kamar.