Help with private server

[Help with private server]

I imagine that no one here will help me, but I figure it is worth a shot.

 

I want to set up a private Aion server, only locally so my kids and I can play together.  I also want to play with admin commands, warp, spawn items, etc.  Since a working and set up aion server is not likely to allow me to admin just for fun, I figure a private server would be best.

 

I managed to set up a server, all is working well.  I can log into my server via the client, but when I try to select the server, it is greyed out.  I can't find any kind of direction to move from online so I am turning to forums for help.

 

Just to be clear, I am not trying to take your business, or harm your income.  I only want to play around.

 

thanks!