Phobos

Hi EuroAion community! I'm a newbie in this server, not in Aion in general since I've played Classic and 4.6 Retail Version (when i was a kid). Specifically my honest concern is about how to catch up with the rest of the ppl. I love pvping and my biggest concern starting this new experience is if I will get insta deleted everytime I try to pvp or even worse get excluded as I have experienced previously in other private servers. So can someone help me out by telling me a brief guide on how to catch up while playing casually (3 to 4 hours a day max). I would highly appreciate y'all's input!